HOW YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE;

So you want to change your life? There is something bothering you that you want to deal away with for good. Or better still, there is something you want to achieve, a new job, a new business, etc. the problem is that there is something standing in your way! You have to overcome it if you want to succeed, but you are wondering how to go about it. Where to start from and all that!

Whatever you want to change in life, you should know this basic principle. Nothing in the universe changes and therefore don’t expect anything to change. You have to change. Don’t expect the grades to change, the prices to change, the people to change, the environment to change etc. expect and only expect you to change. The best way you can change anything in this universe is if you change.

To change your life, you must change the way you think. Perhaps you know the meaning behind the statement that
‘you are what you think about most of the time’.

Behind everything you do is a thought. Every behavior is motivated by a belief and every action is prompted by an attitude. Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts.

There are two ways people try to change there lives; through will power and through thoughts. The former is in majority of cases temporary and I will advise you to take on the latter.

Changing your life through will power involves things as these; I’ll say I’ll force my self to eat less, exercise more, drink less alcohol, quit being disorganized and late. The results are realized but they are only temporary. Sooner than later, you will ne back to the eating and drinking sprees. The change is thus temporary and stressful because you didn’t deal with the root cause of the problem. You eventually give up on all that and revert to your old patterns.

The better and easier way to change your life is by changing your auto pilot, the way you think. Change always starts in the mind. What the mind can believe and conceive it can achieve. Stop thinking immature thoughts which are self centered and self seeking. You actually achieve more in life when your focus is the betterment of
mankind.

‘You will never be a leader if you see others as stepping stones to get ahead. You will be a leader if you are ambitious for the salvation of all mankind. You can’t turn your back on your fellowmen; you have to be anxious to make them happy.’

Start thinking maturely; focus on others not your self. ‘When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. I became a man; I put childish ways behind me.

Work on your thinking machine and you will change your life. Reason, talk and think like a man. You become what you think about most of the time. You cannot become successful when all you think about all day long is failure. When you keep your mind preoccupied with negatives, that is what it will bring into existence. There fore think about positive things and always maintain a positive mental attitude.

Instead of focusing on the problems, focus on the solutions. And, life will only get better and better.
Get changing!!!